On parents !

En/عربي

انا عملت جلسات علاجية كتيره على مدى سنوات، واكتشفتُ أن فيه حاجه واحده بس هي المهمه ، حاجه واضحه ومباشرًه هي اللي بتؤدي للنجاح: نوصل الشخص بالأب والأم. ده كل اللي مطلوب!

فيه ناس بتواجه صعوبة أقل في كده، و ناس بتواجه صعوبة أكبر. و فيه ناس بتفضّل تلوم أهلها.

بس احنا مانقدرش نساعد ناس حاسه انها ضحيه ... كثير ناس بيبقي عندهم الرغبه في الشكوى للآخرين. و بيتعاملوا انهم ضحايا، طالبين أن حد يشفق عليهم! . لكن فيه ناس بتقدر تقول : "ده كان ابويا (و دي كانت امي) ، و انا قابل أنهم كده . هم أدوني اللي يقدروا عليه و اللي انا محتاجه ؛ و فيه ناس تانيه اديتني حاجات تانيه ، و دلوقتي انا حعمل حاجه ( في حياتي ) باللي انا اخدته ". و بكده، بيبقوا احرار ، و بيقدروا يشوفوا مستقبلهم في الحياه بشكل مظبوط !.

#بيرت_هيلينجر (نظرة إلى أرواح الأطفال)

"I did many therapies over many years, and I found out there is only one thing that matters, something quite straightforward. Therapy knows only one path that leads to success: We connect the person with the father and mother. That's all. Some have less of a struggle doing it, others have more. Some remain stuck in reproaches of their parents. We can't work with people who present as victims.....Many who were in homes, or children who were adopted out, feel a calling to complain to others. They present as victims, to claim pity. But there are those who can say: "This is how my parents were, and that is okay with me. I received everything I need; others stepped in to help me on, and now I will do something with it." Through this attitude they are free, and they look to the future."

#Bert_Hellinger (Looking into the Souls of Children )

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