​Don’t victimize your #children!

A friend of mine asked me some weeks ago…how can we raise our children not to be victims… here’s my answer

As far as i’m concerned, all you need to do is: 1. Just #love them without #expectations – which means they don’t need to do something (succeed, achieve things and so on) to earn your love and #approval!.

2. Make them accountable for their actions – which means don’t try to protect them by shielding them from life and its experiences… or bare the consequences of their actions on their behalf… and more important.. 3. Set yourself as an example (do not be a #victim yourself).

Since children, not only learn from their parents, they always often want to energetically carry out the suffering of their parents on their behalf. Which means that if you feel a victim yourself, your children will always display something related to that in their behaviour .

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